We must achieve the Prime Aims. Fuel and control are the most important parts of the Prime Aims. With regard to control, we always achieve control ove

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Marley’s husband Jake never says no. She complains about his not helping out with the laundry, and he always says the right stuff—yes, he’ll help out,

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Narcissist word salad is a verbal stealth attack. Word salad is a circular language tactic use by one person that ensures conversations never have a s

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It is fundamental that we remain unaccountable for our actions. One of the most effective ways of avoiding this accountability, provoking you and leav

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Narcissism tops the list of acrimonious co-parenting personalities. What does this look like behaviorally? In a nutshell, a person who acts: Chaotic C

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It is a shame that the narcissist that has stumbled their uselessness into our lives had a bad childhood, but how is that our fault? How is it our fau

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It was your devotion and belief in a four letter word that led to you being targeted by us and thereafter ensnared. That was not your fault. We look f

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Adult children of narcissistic parents are a deeply wounded group. Growing up, they experience profound violations of trust and an ongoing heightened 

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Indifference is to a narcissist what cutting hard illegal drugs is to an addict. This may seem very descriptive, but this is a truth. Narcissists are

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I have explained how we draw fuel from primary, secondary and tertiary sources. These sources vary in potency and are affected of course by the method

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