Over the years, I have worked with numerous survivors of narcissistic abuse. They all have been subjected to sophisticated manipulation, disrespectful
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The creation of anxiety and uncertainty are twin concerns which we engender in much of what we do. Both have the effect of stopping you from doing thi
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If you have a narcissist in your life, you can’t trust this person—and it’s not your fault. I grew up with a charming, unpredictable, emotionally dist
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The issue of our kind impregnating a victim is yet another tool that exists within our manipulative toolkit to enable us to achieve our aims. I daresa
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It could be said that money—not love—is what makes the world go round. Money is what keeps us clothed and fed and ensures a roof over our heads and ga
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A lot goes into finding a significant other – maybe it’s trial and error, maybe it’s a chance meeting at a coffee shop, or maybe, in today’s era of te
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Sometimes it is not all Relationship Bulletins, declarations to the world about you and me or announcements across the fabric of social media about ou
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Narcissistic parents exploit, bully, and terrorize their children with their excessive neediness, selfish demands, hypersensitivity, unrealistic expec
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A plaintive wail which I often hear is along the lines of, “Why do you always have to shoot me down? I give you everything you could ever want. Why ca
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In interviews for my forthcoming book on verbal abuse, the subject of scapegoating comes up with great regularity; among the forms of verbal abuse use
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