Narcissism tops the list of acrimonious co-parenting personalities. What does this look like behaviorally? In a nutshell, a person who acts: Chaotic C
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It is a shame that the narcissist that has stumbled their uselessness into our lives had a bad childhood, but how is that our fault? How is it our fau
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It was your devotion and belief in a four letter word that led to you being targeted by us and thereafter ensnared. That was not your fault. We look f
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Adult children of narcissistic parents are a deeply wounded group. Growing up, they experience profound violations of trust and an ongoing heightened
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Indifference is to a narcissist what cutting hard illegal drugs is to an addict. This may seem very descriptive, but this is a truth. Narcissists are
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I have explained how we draw fuel from primary, secondary and tertiary sources. These sources vary in potency and are affected of course by the method
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People often ask me if psychopaths can love someone. Research has confirmed their skill at faking it, but can they actually feel it? Although it’s dif
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Forgetting The Narcissist! This is the one thing that they fear the most. If you forget about them, it only reminds them of how worthless they are. Na
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For diagnostic purposes, it’s enough to have DSM-like rubrics for categorizing difficult people: If a subject has X number of these descriptive traits
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The discard phase is very challenging for survivors. Due to cognitive dissonance created by the love bombing and the good days contrasted with the evi
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