When Inlaws bully a targeted spouse there is seldom, if ever, a winner. The adult child of the bully ends up far worse for wear, typically triangulate
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Here we are again. In that all too familiar place. I have lost count of how many times I have found myself here. Despite my very best endeavours, my v
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Insulting remarks are words chosen by a Verbal Abuser to be specifically disrespectful and or scornfully abusive. Verbal Abusers reveal themselves whe
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Ordinarily, all you would see above, would be the words ‘I love you’. You would always fail to notice the huge asterisk next to those words. This is t
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The cycle of abuse follows a familiar pattern: tension, an abusive incident, reconciliation, and a period of calm. Abuse, followed by remorse, followe
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Our friends don’t really like you The people that we choose to provide our inner and outer circle of friends have all been charmed by us and roped in
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Narcissism is a mental illness; they are not conscious of their behavior and they can’t hide it. When you are familiar with the character traits of a
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It hurts doesn’t it, when you see we have moved on with indecent haste and entered a new relationship. In the fullness of time you may look back and b
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Narcissists don’t break up with you. They give indefinite silent treatments because it gives them control. Sometimes they put us in a deep freeze, but
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The eyes are one of our powerful weapons. I hear so many comments made about my eyes. “I saw the world in your eyes.” “Everything I ever wished for, I
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